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As a child and young adult I was described as your
typical “Type A” person. Always on the go, it seemed as though
stress motivated me. To that end, I was very unwilling to change the ways
I operated in the world, even when I was feeling unhappy or stressed.
I learned through experience that even when we know life isn’t working
the way we’d like for it to work, we humans are resistant to change.
I also came to understand that resistance isn’t always due to stubbornness
(another label I proudly wore), but because we are deeply confused and
wary of the unknown.
Like so many people, I graduated from college, and set out to make something
of myself--create a niche, climb a corporate ladder and most of all, prove
my worth! I met a fabulous man and married him, and then realized that
I was largely dissatisfied with life. I tried proving myself another way
and so, became the owner of various businesses. I've done it all; from
creating a business from the ground up, to owning a franchise, to selling
cookware at home parties. All building blocks for where I am now, however,
none of these pursuits increased my happiness quotient!
My physical body was sending alarm signals for years that my actions were
detrimental to my happiness and well-being, but battles with chronic illnesses
never seemed to motivate me toward change. However, a severe illness in
my newborn son in 1999 prompted me to begin a conscious journey of self-discovery.
My son’s illness, untreatable by western medicine, led me to a “healer.”
I was skeptical, as I felt like I had tried meditation and the like before
with little more than frustration as the end result, but moms will do
anything for their children. For the first time, I over-rode my fears
and listened to my heart. As my mind argued with the intuitive I was to
meet with over cost (for something not scientifically proven $100 seemed
like a lot of money), but I paid attention to the voice coming through
my heart that said, "make the appointment." This is where my
conscious journey truly started.
Not unlike many I meet through my practice, it took a catastrophic and
humbling personal event to force my really loud, but necessary, ego out
of the way. I realized I had to make some serious heartfelt decisions
about who I wanted to be and how I wanted to show up in the world, and
nothing outside of myself was going to make those decisions for me! In
my quest to heal my son, I began my own healing. I was introduced to homeopathy,
reiki and meditation, and began to feel the Truth in the Universal Laws
that apply to all of us. Having been a profoundly religious person, I
wasn't quite sure how all of this new material fit into my repertoire,
but what I was learning was that no "one method" of spirituality
has all of the answers. I established my own meditation practice and began
studying with various spiritual teachers--training in different meditation
styles and seeking to better understand the human connection with the
cosmos. These practices resulted in me knowing that I needed to learn
to share my experiences and knowledge so that others could leave disempowerment
behind and find their empowered authentic selves.
My now healthy and vibrant son was my catalyst for transformation, and
he helped launch my career as a Spiritual Life Coach. Since 2000, I have
offered individual sessions as a Spiritual Life Coach helping others find
their authentic-self and inner power. I developed a spiritual parenting
class for those moms, dads and caregivers who wished to take their parenting
to a more loving and spiritual space. Perhaps the most fun I've had has
been teaching meditation to small groups. In these interactive classes
individuals were encouraged to find their inner voice, their passions
and their connection to their heart so that they could follow their own
inner-guidance instead of operating only according to the ideas offered
by society or peers.
I'm a firm believer in the concept, "thoughts create." To that
end, I also love practical tools like vision boards and journaling. I
believe strongly in using support in the form of coaches, therapists or
like minded groups, to achieve our goals.
I have a wonderful life in Southern California with
the man of my dreams (whom I married 14 years ago) and my two beautifully
heart-centered children. Currently I am working to help people get comfortable
with their sense of self in the world through my coaching practice and
meditation classes. I am expanding my writing career by helping others
put their voice into print as well as writing a spiritual column for
Your Health Connection Magazine and my personal blog.
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